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charlie | ...and I responded honestly: I don't know, maybe. Predicament: I don't EVER know. Will I ever know? See?! No one will know that so how is it possible to know anything???! I wish so badly I would k ow these things but my gut/intuition becomes quite vague in these issues as if to tell me: it's all on you, lady! Can't help you with this one.. Needless to say person having asked me looked rather sad and confused Edit: just realized this has little to do with astrology unless something in my messed up chartS (yeah, that 4 planet stellium + ascendant in 12H in pChart included) have something to do with it.. |
SDragon | Tell him it's not his job to make you happy. It's his job to make himself happy and to 'share' that happiness with you. |
hikoro | are you happy with your engagement? is everything alright? asking an honest question here... |
Randall | Moving to Soul Unions. |
Zander916 | quote: Originally posted by SDragon: Tell him it's not his job to make you happy.It's his job to make himself happy and to 'share' that happiness with you.
I agree. The other thing, maybe it's just me. It seems like he's showing an awful strong insecurity. Myself, I'd be a little weary of that. It's never good in my experience. Sometimes it's just beginning stuff like you driving yourself crazy wishing you knew. Same for him. We all want to see the future. Well, most that I know. The problem is, sometimes that insecurity goes away, or just kind of hangs around a little. But sometimes, the crazy follows. Watch out for that crazy! |
charlie | quote: Originally posted by hikoro: are you happy with your engagement? is everything alright? asking an honest question here...
No. |
Newrise | Can I ask which one of you is a happier person by themselves? |
charlie | quote: Originally posted by Newrise: Can I ask which one of you is a happier person by themselves?
I am. By far!! He's a very typical "Saturnian" human. I have a culminating Jupiter that sits and shines all alone at the top of my chart. I also have moon and vertex in 5H so I'm goofy and sunny. He has Saturn as culminating planet.. But aside from planets, I make mistakes and move on. He makes mistakes and beats the dead horse repeatedly. |
ScorpionAz | quote: Originally posted by SDragon: Tell him it's not his job to make you happy.It's his job to make himself happy and to 'share' that happiness with you.
Exactly!! ------------------
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ScorpionAz | Reminds me of this quote I came upon .... Don’t base your happiness and self-worth upon others. The people in your life can add light to help you illuminate the darkness, but only you have the power to ignite your flame. ------------------
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hikoro | quote: Originally posted by charlie: No.
that is what i suspected... hmm...dont know what to say... do you still love him and are in love with him? it seems that your natures are different. is he a too much of a wet blanket and the stern authoritarian father for you, whereas he sees you as being too careless and childish? |
charlie | quote: Originally posted by hikoro: that is what i suspected... hmm...dont know what to say... do you still love him and are in love with him? it seems that your natures are different. is he a too much of a wet blanket and the stern authoritarian father for you, whereas he sees you as being too careless and childish?
Yes to all you stated plus that he is very needy in terms of wanting to know everything about what I do and where I go. Funny, he has ONE planet. |
hikoro | quote: Originally posted by charlie: Yes to all you stated plus that he is very needy in terms of wanting to know everything about what I do and where I go. Funny, he has ONE planet.
tough one...i dont know what to say. you can always makes a list about the pros an cons and see if this is really what you want or.... there is always some funky transits, and maybe, the storm will pass? |
sugarflapjacks | quote: Originally posted by hikoro: are you happy with your engagement? is everything alright? asking an honest question here...
quote: Originally posted by charlie: No.
Y'all need to talk or maybe get counseling if you are going to marry him.
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